Kinship care: the abuse of grandparents?…

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Photo courtesy of ©iStockphoto/Stu99

One day, Rose received a phone call from social services.

They asked her a question. Could she look after her grandchildren as their mother was unsafe?

“Yes,” she said, “of course!” Which grandparent wouldn’t?

She became a “kinship carer.” Years later, she’s still a kinship carer…

Great for the kids, but what about Rose?…

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Looked After children – safe on social media?…

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“He’s writing horrible things about me on Facebook…”

Sound familiar? I’ve spoken to two people recently who’ve had problems with children they look after being exposed to problems on Facebook.

Like any platform for communicating and sharing, Facebook is brilliant, but it has its perils.

This can be particularly acute when relationships are already a problem and where contact is limited. Like when children are in the care system or being looked after by kinship carers.

We are pretty hot on keeping our kids safe on the roads, from strangers, etc. But how about online?

Social media: keep the good, avoid the bad…

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Kinship carers: unsung heroes of child care…

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In our last post on foster care, we lifted the lid on those who open their lives to other people’s children.

We also explored the nature of the sacrifice required from carers.

Many of the comments after the piece were from kinship carers – essentially those who foster children from their own extended family.

This got me thinking about the differences between foster care and kinship care. So I did some digging around. The results of this enquiry had me shocked…

Why kinship carers are heroes!…

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In praise of foster carers…

Why foster carers rock!

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My career has been punctuated by encounters with people.

That’s the nature of social work, I guess.

Apart from some amazing teenagers, the group who’ve impacted me the most has been foster carers.

They never cease to astound me!

Why foster carers rock!…

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National Adoption Week – agency highlight…

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Photo courtesy of ©After Adoption

As many of you will know, I have an interest in adoption.

In today’s post – as part of our National Adoption Week series – I want to highlight an agency that I think is brilliant (Don’t worry, they’re not paying me!).

After Adoption is a voluntary adoption agency working throughout England and Wales to help all those affected by adoption.

From placing children with adoptive parents to supporting birth families and reuniting families separated through adoption, they can work with all groups of people affected by adoption.

Why post adoption services matter…

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National Adoption Week – 5 reasons to celebrate!

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Photo courtesy of ©iStockphoto/LindaYolanda

I love adoption. Both my kids are adopted – it’s the best thing I ever did.

Whether you’re adopted, an adoptive parent, a foster carer or whatever, National Adoption Week is a chance to celebrate.

I want to use this week-long national focus on adoption to shine the light on related issues, agencies working in the field and one fund-raising opportunity. Most of all, I want to celebrate adoption, because it’s fantastic!

Why adoption is fantastic…

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Adoption: YET MORE tips for the curious…

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Wow – what started as a quick list has become 3 not-so-quick blog posts!

After the first and second posts on this subject, I had a growing number of responses via LinkedIn, offering more and more advice – some of it really good. So I thought that I would continue to share these here.

I haven’t quoted the commenters verbatim, or credited them, as I haven’t had their permission to do so (though I did ask).

Yet even more good advice for those considering adoption…

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Adoption: MORE tips for the curious…

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After the first post on this subject, I had a number of responses via LinkedIn, offering other bits of advice. So I thought that I would share the essence of these here.

I haven’t quoted the commenters verbatim, or credited them, as I haven’t got their explicit permission to do so (though I did ask).

There are some real crackers here from those working and living on the front line of adoption practice:

More good advice for those considering adoption…

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5 tips for the curious...

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16 years ago, I took part in my first adoption.

It was a nerve-wracking process. First time experiences usually are!

This wasn’t one of my usual fads. A new hobby that I would pursue vigorously for a few months before moving onto something else. This was much more important. This would be a new life entering our family!

But this was different…

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Gangs: advice for parents & carers…

GangsThe government has issued a new advice leaflet for parents and carers.

The 12 page document is called, “Advice for Parents & Carers on Gangs: Helping Young People Make the Right Choice.”

The following are the main headings covered:

  • Why do young people join gangs?
  • Signs to look out for
  • It’s not just the boys
  • What can you do?
  • What if your child is already involved?
  • What the law says
  • Useful contacts

In my view this is a very worthwhile leaflet to read. It breaks down the issues very well, offers practical advice and access to other useful resources.

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What everyone should know about childhood brain injury…

Acquired brain injury (ABI)…

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“In one moment, every year, approximately 50,000 children and young people’s lives will change forever. They will acquire a brain injury through an accident, illness/tumour or poisoning. It is not their fault and they do not expect it to happen.”

Lisa Turan – Chief Executive, Child Brain Injury Trust

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